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You’re a professional. You’re used to handling hard things. But being lied to, cheated on, or kept in the dark? You weren’t trained for this. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.

When infidelity, porn use, or sexual acting out detonates a relationship, it doesn’t just stay “between you two.”

It hits your work. Your focus. Your health. Your sense of who you are.

And right now, you’re barely holding it together.

You need structure.
You need people who understand.
You need truth, not damage control
You need a path forward as you decide on your relationship.

For professionals who can manage a company, lead a team, or solve complex problems at work, but feel powerless when it comes to the damage happening at home.

“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next.
No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”

You’re a professional. You’re used to handling hard things. But being lied to, cheated on, or kept in the dark? You weren’t trained for this. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.

When infidelity, porn use, or sexual acting out detonates a relationship, it doesn’t just stay “between you two.”

Betrayed Recovery, Couple Anger

It hits your work. Your focus. Your health. Your sense of who you are.

And right now, you’re barely holding it together.

You need structure.
You need people who understand.
You need truth, not damage control
You need a path forward as you decide on your relationship.

For professionals who can manage a company, lead a team, or solve complex problems at work, but feel powerless when it comes to the damage happening at home.

“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next.
No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”

The Right Process Changes Everything

Carmarillo

I’m Cheryl Camarillo, LCSW, CSAT, CST. Since 1994, I’ve worked with people navigating sexual issues in relationships. Since 2017, I’ve focused exclusively on deceptive sexuality and betrayal trauma — and since 2018, I’ve worked with 250+ couples and conducted 4,000+ individual sessions in this specialty alone.

What I’ve learned after all of that work is this: most couples cannot reconcile on their own — not because they don’t love each other, but because betrayal trauma requires a very specific kind of help that most therapists simply aren’t trained to provide.

And for women standing at a crossroads, not yet sure whether their path leads forward as a couple or forward alone, this work begins with you, wherever that road takes you.

I’m trained in the Minwalla Model, an approach built on a simple but powerful idea: healing only becomes possible when the pain is clearly named and safety is rebuilt through truth — not around it. It moves couples from crisis, to understanding, to rebuilding — in that order.

I am one of a limited number of therapists in the country certified in deceptive sexual trauma through the Institute of Sexual Health. I also hold certifications in sex addiction therapy and sex therapy, and I have trained future clinicians at the university level.

My clients describe me as straightforward, caring, and non-judgmental. Couples who have seen multiple therapists before finding me often say the same thing — nothing started to change until we worked together.

“We had 2 couples therapists and 3 personal therapists over 5 years, and nothing started to change until Cheryl worked with both of us. She understood the trauma, the damage to our relationship, and our worries about our children.”

There is a path out of the crisis.

This Program Was Built for You

For the Women Ready to Stop Hurting and Start Healing

Emotional Shock in Aftermath

If you’re the one who was lied to, cheated on, or kept in the dark—and you’re done feeling crazy:

You’ll be validated for your pain and stop blaming yourself or questioning your reality. You’re not crazy—what happened to you is real, and your reactions are completely normal.

You’ll learn to steady your nervous system and manage the anxiety, triggers, and sleepless nights that come with betrayal trauma.

You’ll understand what actually happened to you and why it’s affecting you the way it is—so you can finally make sense of your experience.

You’ll rebuild trust in yourself and your judgment—whether you stay or leave.

What Changes for You

  • Clarity about what actually happened (and what it means).
  • Tools to manage trauma symptoms and daily functioning.
  • Confidence in your decisions and your reality.
  • A stronger, healthier version of yourself—regardless of what happens with your relationship.

“My husband is a true partner, and I am the person I want to be — strong and confident. Not hurting and broken.”

“People like to say as the partner, you need to do these different things, but with Cheryl’s help, I learned that my needs are just as important.”

Imagine waking up without the constant knot in your stomach and trusting your own judgment again.

“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”

Why This Work Actually Changes Things

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Real Tools, Not Just Talk

Over 6 months, you’ll use practical, evidence-based methods to break destructive patterns, calm your nervous system, and make decisions based on your values — not fear, guilt, or shame.

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Safety First—Always

These groups are structured so you never feel attacked, overwhelmed, or shamed. You’ll do deep work at a sustainable pace, with clear boundaries and trauma-informed facilitation.
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A Community Without Judgment

You’ll be with 4–6 other high-functioning adults who are serious about change. No gossip.
Just honest work with people who understand what’s at stake.

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Reclaim What You've Lost

You’ll regain control — over your reactions, your decisions, and your future. The clarity and skills you gain are yours, whether your relationship continues or not. This work is about building the life you actually want to live.

Voices From the Group

Cheryl Camarillo
LCSW, CSAT, CST

“One of my T3 participants described something I hear often — the cycle of hope and disappointment that comes when a partner makes promises but keeps sliding back. What stayed with me was this: she said the group helped her realize she needed to focus on herself and her children. His path was his own. She told me she started having more and more days where she felt strong. That’s exactly what this work is designed to do — give you back yourself, regardless of what he does.”

“Something I hear consistently from women in T3 is how hard it is to find a place where they feel truly accepted. One participant told me she had never felt comfortable being completely open about her feelings until she found this group. No judgment. Just women who understood. That sense of safety isn’t accidental — it’s built into everything we do.”

“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”

Program Details & Commitment

6 months of Weekly 90-minute group sessions

You’ll move through a structured program informed by the Minwalla Model for addressing deceptive sexuality and betrayal trauma. You’ll work in a small group of 4–6 people who share your specific situation. Betraying partners and betrayed partners meet separately to keep the space safe and focused.

The program is divided into three 7-week sessions, each building on the last with specific curriculum and focus areas.

What’s Included:

Weekly Group Sessions
Structured teaching, open discussion, and practical assignments each week to deepen your understanding and growth.

Monthly Private Coaching
One 30-minute individual call per month with Cheryl for check-ins, questions, and personalized guidance

Private Community Access
A secure online space to stay connected between sessions for accountability, encouragement, and real-time support

Bonus Webinars
Access to recorded trainings and supplemental materials that reinforce key concepts

Start Date: March 23, 2026
Program Length:

6 months (three 7-week sessions)

Group Size:

Limited to 4–6 participants per cohort

Registration Deadline:

March 22, 2026

Investment details and payment options are discussed during your consultation to ensure this program is the right fit for you.

Waiting doesn’t make the damage stop

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If you’re reading this, you already know something has to change.

You can’t keep white-knuckling through your days, pretending everything’s fine at work while your personal life is imploding.

You can’t keep cycling through shame, anxiety, or confusion alone.

High-functioning professionals don’t ignore problems that are actively causing damage—they address them.

These groups begin on March 23, 2026, and space is limited to 4–6 people per cohort. Once full, enrollment closes until the next cycle.

Registration closes midday on March 22, 2026 – Groups limited to 4–6 participants

A Clinically Responsible Approach

This program requires readiness, stability, and commitment—and I take that seriously.

After your first two sessions,, I will assess whether this group is the right fit for where you are right now. If I determine you need different support—whether that’s individual therapy, a different level of care, or more time before starting group work—we’ll have a direct conversation about what serves you best.

This isn’t about satisfaction—it’s about safety and effectiveness. Your readiness and the group’s integrity matter more than filling seats.

If we determine together that you should continue elsewhere, we’ll discuss appropriate next steps and options.

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