You’re a professional. You’re used to handling hard things.
But living a double life? That’s a different kind of weight. And you don’t have to carry it alone anymore.
When infidelity, porn use, or sexual acting out has put everything at risk — your relationship, your family, your integrity — pretending it isn’t happening isn’t working anymore.
It’s affecting your focus. Your health. Your sense of who you are.
And right now you’re exhausted from hiding it.
You need structure.
You need people who won’t let you off the hook
You need truth, not damage control
You need a path forward as you work on your relationship.
For high-functioning professionals who can lead a team, manage complexity, and solve hard problems at work, but feel completely stuck when it comes to facing what’s happened at home.
“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”
You’re a professional. You’re used to handling hard things.
But living a double life? That’s a different kind of weight. And you don’t have to carry it alone anymore.
When infidelity, porn use, or sexual acting out has put everything at risk — your relationship, your family, your integrity — pretending it isn’t happening isn’t working anymore.
It’s affecting your focus. Your health. Your sense of who you are.
And right now you’re exhausted from hiding it.
You need structure.
You need people who won’t let you off the hook
You need trught, not damage control
You need a path forward as you work on your relationship.
For high-functioning professionals who can lead a team, manage complexity, and solve hard problems at work, but feel completely stuck when it comes to facing what’s happened at home.
“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”
The Right Process Changes Everything
What I’ve learned after all of that work is this: most couples cannot reconcile on their own — not because they don’t love each other, but because betrayal trauma requires a very specific kind of help that most therapists simply aren’t trained to provide.
And for men who aren’t sure whether their relationship can survive what they’ve done, that’s exactly why this work begins with you becoming someone she can trust again.
I’m trained in the Minwalla Model, an approach built on a simple but powerful idea: healing only becomes possible when the pain is clearly named and safety is rebuilt through truth — not around it. It moves couples from crisis, to understanding, to rebuilding — in that order.
I am one of a limited number of therapists in the country certified in deceptive sexual trauma through the Institute of Sexual Health. I also hold certifications in sex addiction therapy and sex therapy, and I have trained future clinicians at the university level.
My clients describe me as straightforward, caring, and non-judgmental. Couples who have seen multiple therapists before finding me often say the same thing — nothing started to change until we worked together.
“We had 2 couples therapists and 3 personal therapists over 5 years, and nothing started to change until Cheryl worked with both of us. She understood the trauma, the damage to our relationship, and our worries about our children.”
There is a path out of the crisis.
This Program Was Built for You
For Men Ready to Stop Hiding and Start Repairing
If you’re the one who lied, cheated, or lived a secret sexual life—and you’re done hiding:
You’ll learn to see your choices clearly—not as “mistakes” or “private issues,” but as deception that caused real harm. Harm to yourself. Harm to your partner. Harm to your relationship. And harm to your family and community.
You’ll stop minimizing and blaming, and start taking full ownership of the damage—all of it. And in a group of people doing the same hard work, you’ll rebuild the integrity, honesty, and self-respect you’ve lost.
The goal isn’t punishment—it’s growth and a future you’re not afraid to look at.
What Changes for You
- Ability to tell the truth without defensiveness
- Tools to rebuild trust through actions, not promises
- Freedom from shame and secrecy
- A clear path forward, whether your relationship continues or not
“Everything I would say upset my partner. After seeing Cheryl, I learned she needed something else — she needed me to be there for her. She needed me to hear her.”
Imagine having hard conversations without defensiveness—because you’re no longer hiding anything.
“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”
Why This Work Actually Changes Things
Real Tools, Not Just Talk
Over 6 months, you’ll use practical, evidence-based methods to break destructive patterns, calm your nervous system, and make decisions based on your values, not fear, guilt, or shame.
Safety First—Always
These groups are structured so you never feel attacked, overwhelmed, or shamed. You’ll do deep work at a sustainable pace, with clear boundaries and trauma-informed facilitation.
A Community Without Judgment
You’ll be with 4–6 other high-functioning adults who are serious about change. No gossip.
Just honest work with people who understand what’s at stake.
Reclaim What You've Lost
You’ll regain control — over your reactions, your decisions, and your future. The clarity and skills you gain are yours, whether your relationship continues or not. This work is about building the life you actually want to live.
Voices From the Group
Cheryl Camarillo
LCSW, CSAT, CST
“One of my TAG participants told me recently that this is the only place he can actually talk about what’s happening at home. He doesn’t want to burden people they know. What he said has stayed with me: ‘Nobody here is going to get upset at what I need to say out loud.’ That’s exactly the kind of safety this group is built to provide.”
“I needed a program that focused on more than just the behavior. I needed a place to learn how to rebuild my relationship.
Cheryl’s group program meets both of my needs”.
“This is a confidential, no-obligation 30-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are, whether this program is the right fit for your situation, and what comes next. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation.”
Program Details & Commitment
6 months weekly 90-minute group sessions
You’ll move through a structured program informed by the Minwalla Model for addressing deceptive sexuality and betrayal trauma. You’ll work in a small group of 4–6 people who share your specific situation. Betraying partners and betrayed partners meet separately to keep the space safe and focused.
The program is divided into three 7-week sessions, each building on the last with specific curriculum and focus areas.
What’s Included:
Weekly Group Sessions
Structured teaching, open discussion, and practical assignments each week to deepen your understanding and growth.
Monthly Private Coaching
One 30-minute individual call per month with Cheryl for check-ins, questions, and personalized guidance
Private Community Access
A secure online space to stay connected between sessions for accountability, encouragement, and real-time support
Bonus Webinars
Access to recorded trainings and supplemental materials that reinforce key concepts
Start Date: March 23, 2026
Program Length:
6 months (three 7-week sessions)
Group Size:
Limited to 4–6 participants per cohort
Registration Deadline:
March 22, 2026
Investment details and payment options are discussed during your consultation to ensure this program is the right fit for you.
Waiting doesn’t make the damage stop
If you’re reading this, you already know something has to change.
You can’t keep white-knuckling through your days, pretending everything’s fine at work while your personal life is imploding.
You can’t keep cycling through shame, anxiety, or confusion alone.
High-functioning professionals don’t ignore problems that are actively causing damage—they address them.
These groups begin on March 23, 2026, and space is limited to 4–6 people per cohort. Once full, enrollment closes until the next cycle.
Registration closes midday March 22, 2026 – Groups limited to 4 – 6 participants
A Clinically Responsible Approach
This program requires readiness, stability, and commitment, and I take that seriously.
After your first two sessions, I will assess whether this group is the right fit for where you are right now. If I determine you need different support—whether that’s individual therapy, a different level of care, or more time before starting group work—we’ll have a direct conversation about what serves you best.
This isn’t about satisfaction—it’s about safety and effectiveness. Your readiness and the group’s integrity matter more than filling seats.
If we determine together that you should continue elsewhere, we’ll discuss appropriate next steps and options.
